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“Do You Really Want to Hurt Me” by Culture Club
From the album Kissing to Be Clever (1982)
“Do You Really Want to Hurt Me” by Culture Club appears on 13 radio countdowns from 8 stations between 1983 and 2023. It was first released in 1982 on the album Kissing to Be Clever. Its best result is #11 on the KROQ Top 106.7 Songs of 1983. In the combined RockLists rankings it is the #24 alternative song of 1983, #2,399 alternative song of all time and #181 of the '80s.
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"Do You Really Want to Hurt Me" was the ballad that broke Culture Club, a single from their 1982 debut, Kissing to Be Clever, released in Britain that September after "White Boy" and "I'm Afraid of Me" had stalled far down the chart. Boy George sings it with a soft, wounded croon over a lazy, lovers-rock sway, Roy Hay layering electric piano, guitar and synthesizer, Mikey Craig on bass and Jon Moss on drums and vibraphone, with Keith Miller on Synclavier and Helen Terry on backing vocals. Steve Levine produced, engineered and recorded it, and all four members share the writing.
It spent three weeks at number one in the UK in October 1982, then went to number one in Canada, Australia and the Cash Box chart in America, and sat at number two on the Billboard Hot 100 for three weeks in the spring of 1983.
Written with AI assistance from RockLists chart data, MusicBrainz and Wikipedia.
RockLists rankings
Alternative & Modern Rock
Indie & Adult Alternative
All Rock Formats
Year-end countdowns
| Year | # | Station | Countdown | of |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1983 | 11 | KROQ Los Angeles, CA | KROQ Top 106.7 Songs of 1983 | 107 |
| 1983 | 48 | 91X San Diego, CA / Tijuana | 91X Top 91 Songs of 1983 | 91 |
All-time and decade countdowns
| Year | # | Station | Countdown | of |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1991 | 920 | CFNY 102.1 The Edge | CFNY Top 1002 Songs of All-Time (1991 Edition) | 1002 |
| 1995 | 381 | KROQ | KROQ Flashback 500 (Memorial Day 1995) | 500 |
| 1996 | 314 | KROQ | KROQ Flashback 500 (Memorial Day 1996) | 500 |
| 1998 | 382 | KROQ | KROQ Flashback 500 (Memorial Day 1998) | 488 |
| 1999 | 26 | Channel 104.9 | Channel 104.9 Top 101 Songs of the '80s (February 1999) | 104 |
| 1999 | 183 | WLIR / WDRE | WLIR Top 300 Songs of All-Time (December 1999) | 300 |
| 1999 | 558 | CFNY 102.1 The Edge | CFNY Top 1002 Songs of All-Time (November 1999) | 1002 |
| 2002 | 292 | Fred (XM 44) | Fred XM Top 2002 Songs of All-Time (July 2002) | 2002 |
| 2003 | 258 | Fred (XM 44) | Fred XM Top 2044 Songs of All-Time (July 2003) | 2044 |
| 2021 | 244 | 90.9 The Bridge | 90.9 The Bridge Top 909 Songs of the '80s | 909 |
| 2023 | 335 | The Colorado Sound | The Colorado Sound Top 850 Songs of the 1980s | 850 |
Also listed as: Do You Really Want To Hurt Me; Do You Really Want to Hurt Me?; Do You Really Want To Hurt Me?.
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