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“Sex (I'm a...)” by Berlin

“Sex (I'm a...)” by Berlin appears on 40 radio countdowns from 10 stations between 1982 and 2023. Its best result is #23 on the 91X Top 91 Songs of 1983. In the combined RockLists rankings it is the #70 alternative song of 1983, #429 alternative song of all time and #248 of the '80s.

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#23best position
0#1 finishes
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1982–2023years charted

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Berlin put "Sex (I'm a...)" on Pleasure Victim, their second studio album, in 1982, and when it went out as the record's second single in February 1983 it was the first release on the band's new label, Geffen. John Crawford, Terri Nunn and David Diamond wrote it together, and Crawford and Nunn sing it as a duet.

The arrangement is electronic disco in the Giorgio Moroder mold, with Donna Summer's "I Feel Love" as its North Star: a cool machine pulse under a heated exchange. Nunn later said the words grew out of her relationship with KROQ DJ Richard Blade and her attempts to bring role-play into their love life, and Blade backed her up.

That frankness came at a price, and several radio stations banned it outright. It still became a cult hit on American radio, peaking at 62 on the Billboard Hot 100, went all the way to number four in Canada, and pulled the band into the mainstream. The video barely got a look-in on MTV, though Nunn's mother turns up in it for a cameo. "The Metro" followed it as the next single.

Written with AI assistance from RockLists chart data, MusicBrainz and Wikipedia.

RockLists rankings

Alternative & Modern Rock

Indie & Adult Alternative

All Rock Formats

Year-end countdowns

Year#StationCountdownof
1982 99 KROQ Los Angeles, CA KROQ Top 106.7 Songs of 1982 107
1983 23 91X San Diego, CA / Tijuana 91X Top 91 Songs of 1983 91

All-time and decade countdowns

Year#StationCountdownof
– 187 WLIR / WDRE WLIR Top 200 Songs of the 1980s 200
1988 94 KROQ KROQ Flashback 500 (Memorial Day 1988) 496
1988 24 Live 105 Live 105 Top 500 Songs of All-Time (Memorial Day 1988) 501
1988 140 WLIR / WDRE WLIR Top 200 Songs of All-Time (1988) 200
1989 80 91X 91X Top 191 Songs of the 1980s (1989) 191
1989 77 KROQ KROQ Flashback 500 (Memorial Day 1989) 495
1989 50 WOXY 97X WOXY Modern Rock 500 (1989) 500
1990 133 Live 105 Live 105 Top 300 Songs of All-Time (Memorial Day 1990) 299
1991 275 Live 105 Live 105 Top 300 Songs of All-Time (Memorial Day 1991) 302
1991 93 WOXY 97X WOXY Modern Rock 500 (1991) 500
1991 84 CFNY 102.1 The Edge CFNY Top 1002 Songs of All-Time (1991 Edition) 1002
1992 27 KROQ KROQ Flashback 500 (Memorial Day 1992) 500
1992 96 Live 105 Live 105 Top 300 Songs of All-Time (Memorial Day 1992) 299
1994 50 KROQ KROQ Flashback 500 (Memorial Day 1994) 497
1994 36 Live 105 Live 105 Revolutionary 500 (July 1994) 500
1994 219 WOXY 97X WOXY Modern Rock 500 (1994) 500
1995 103 KROQ KROQ Flashback 500 (Memorial Day 1995) 500
1995 136 Live 105 Live 105 Revolutionary 300 (July 1995) 300
1996 86 KROQ KROQ Flashback 500 (Memorial Day 1996) 500
1996 360 WOXY 97X WOXY Modern Rock 500 (1996) 498
1998 48 KROQ KROQ Flashback 500 (Memorial Day 1998) 488
1999 81 Channel 104.9 Channel 104.9 Top 101 Songs of the '80s (February 1999) 104
1999 392 91X 91X Fat 500 Songs of All-Time (July 1999) 500
1999 235 WLIR / WDRE WLIR Top 300 Songs of All-Time (December 1999) 300
1999 1045 107.7 The End The End Top 1077 Songs of All-Time (December 1999) 1077
1999 396 WOXY 97X WOXY Modern Rock 500 (1999) 500
1999 957 CFNY 102.1 The Edge CFNY Top 1002 Songs of All-Time (November 1999) 1002
2000 398 WOXY 97X WOXY Modern Rock 500 (2000) 500
2001 400 WOXY 97X WOXY Modern Rock 500 (2001) 498
2002 404 WOXY 97X WOXY Modern Rock 500 (2002) 500
2002 142 Fred (XM 44) Fred XM Top 2002 Songs of All-Time (July 2002) 2002
2003 407 WOXY 97X WOXY Modern Rock 500 (2003) 500
2003 53 Fred (XM 44) Fred XM Top 2044 Songs of All-Time (July 2003) 2044
2005 451 WOXY 97X WOXY Modern Rock 500 (2005) 500
2006 65 KROQ KROQ Flashback 500 (Memorial Day 2006) 500
2006 469 WOXY 97X WOXY Modern Rock 500 (2006) 499
2008 424 KROQ KROQ Flashback 500 (Memorial Day 2008) 500
2023 738 The Colorado Sound The Colorado Sound Top 850 Songs of the 1980s 850

Also listed as: Sex (I'm a)...; Sex (I'm a.); Sex (I'm A …); Sex (I'm a).; Sex; Sex (I'm A ...).

Charting alongside it in 1983

Best songs of 1983 →
  1. 1New Year's DayU2
  2. 2Let's DanceDavid Bowie
  3. 3The LovecatsThe Cure
  4. 4Every Breath You TakeThe Police
  5. 5Rebel YellBilly Idol
  6. 6In a Big CountryBig Country

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